Think big

Some people identify themselves by comparing their qualities with other people's. It's not possible to be better than everyone in everything. In fact a few people become best at a few things by luck and practice. This can't be easy on everybody and they cheat to prove their superiority. The most common way is to deny other's qualities. Nothing can be right in their eyes if others have done it.
Noble people look at their own past and their own goals when they evaluate themselves. They compare qualities they have with qualities they had and qualities they should have. They define what they want and identify the tools they need to achieve that goal. They understand that life is a competition but they also believe in a spacious world that every one can fit in. They understand that everybody's position in this world is defined mainly by their true qualities and cheating can only move it a very few percent of the whole spectrum. They don't waste their time on that. They think big. They act big.